Friday, December 14, 2012
Holiday Tips: Cut yourself some slack.
1. Remember that it really IS the thought that counts. Don't kill yourself trying to find the perfect present, and don't get crabby if someone buys you a really ugly sweater.
2. There IS too much of a good thing. Don't convince yourself you need every decoration or every single variety of Christmas cookie ever invented. Just do what feels good.
3. Take some downtime. There are a lot of really great holiday romance stories out there. Take a break and read a book. I guarantee you'll feel better afterwards. Maybe sneak a cup of cocoa and one of those cookies you slaved over.
And the upshot? Remember that the idea of the holidays is to have fun with the people you love. Your kids, parents, cousins and friends would rather have another hour WITH you than another pumpkin pie or string of lights on the tree. Save some of your time for them. Most of all--cut yourself and everyone else some slack. There are bigger things to stress about than making the perfect fruitcake.
And finally: Don't forget to laugh. Laughter and happiness make everything less stressful.
What tips can you add? I'd love to know.
Have a wonderful holiday season! I'll see you here again in 2013!
Posted by Cindy Spencer Pape at 12:30 AM